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Sexually Transmitted Diseases

Common STDs and how to avoid them

The first thing anyone needs to know about sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), is that anyone can get any of them. Women, men, and teenagers, are at risk of being infected if they are sexually active.

Here are four common STDs, the symptoms of them, and how to prevent them:

Herpes

People with herpes can be asymptomatic, but in most cases, the initial outbreak occurs about two weeks after infection. You might experience flu-like symptoms, swollen lymph nodes and fever, but the hallmark characteristic of a herpes infection is an outbreak of sores in the genital region. Prevention is very important because there is no cure for herpes. Abstinence is the only 100 percent sure way to prevent it, but avoiding all sexual contact with an infected person, particularly during an outbreak, will make contracting this virus unlikely.

Chlamydia

This is said to be the most commonly detected STD out there. To get this disease, actual penetration doesn’t have to occur. It can be transmitted simply through contact with an infected person’s genitals. It is said that Chlamydia can sometimes show no symptoms, but women may experience vaginal discharge, pain during sex and urination, “spotting” (bleeding when a woman isn’t menstruating), pain in the lower abdomen and mild fever. Men may have discharge, or an itchy, burning sensation in their penis.

Gonorrhea

Gonorrhea is most commonly transmitted to men and women by means of sexual intercourse, be it vaginal, anal or oral sex. Penetration is not always needed to get this disease - simply being in contact with it is enough. Symptoms may include discharge (sometimes bloody discharge), a burning feeling when urinating, abdominal pain or swelling, spotting and fever. It’s said that men are more likely to experience symptoms of this STD than women, and they may have a burning sensation during urination and discolored pus coming out of the penis.

Gonorrhea can lead to infertility and sterility (the inability to have children). As with Chlamydia, it can be transmitted to babies during birth.

Syphilis

This disease is spread through sexual intercourse, contact with an infected person’s genitals, and can even be transmitted mother-to-child during pregnancy, if the mother-to-be has it. Not something to ignore, syphilis has four stages:

  1. Painless sores appear on or around the genitals, the mouth, throat or anus.
  2. A rash with brown sores appears, and causes fever and aches.
  3. The third stage is called “latent,” because the disease appears to be gone. However, it is still living in the body.
  4. Left untreated, syphilis can cause severe damage to almost any body part, even the brain.

If you think you have syphilis, get tested as soon as you can.

Other STDs include Hepatitis A, B, and C, Trichomoniasis, Genital Warts, Pubic Lice (crabs), Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (some STDs can lead to this), Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and HPV warts, and HIV / AIDS. If you think you may have any of these diseases, get tested immediately, and get the medications needed to treat them.

Some ways to prevent contracting or spreading STDs are to always use protection, even if you are with a trusted partner; get tested regularly for STDs (particularly before engaging in sexual activity with a new partner); and never have careless sex or several sexual partners at one time.

The only 100 percent effective way to prevent yourself from contracting an STD is to never have sex - in lieu of this, smart decisions and careful planning are your best resources.

By Cecilia Taylor

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I honestly dont know why everyone is stressing about having contracted herpes. Ya it sucks when you have an outbreak but it's not the end of the world. Eat healthy, stay fit and well rested avoid excessive stress and you'll have fewer outbreaks. I contracted herpes from my ex gf and rarely have outbreaks maybe one every 2 to 3 yrs, other than that I'm alive and well, stop being so overly dramatic about it.
Posted on 3/4/2010 2:38:00 PM by Anonymous
please tell me the midecation of gonnorhea
Posted on 10/15/2009 11:01:00 AM by Anonymous
i just found out i have herpes 2 im 48 been divorced for a yr and a half...i now know how stupid i was for not having protected sex, guess i thought nothing would happen to me yes me. i feel my life is over someone please tell me its not....i feel so alone right now, and whats strange for me anyway is i have never had any signs of this no out breaks at all....really need some info
Posted on 10/8/2009 5:14:00 PM by Anonymous
peoples lifes are never the same once they have been tested positive for any disease that will never go away. You think people will begin to label you even if it wasnt your fault, but think its never anyones fault because sometimes people just dont know. If you have trusted positive and are devastated please put your trust in God. "He will never leave you or forsake you". And one might think he allowed this to happen to you, but just think you were the irressponsible one and know he's here with a shoulder to cry on and to bring you closer to him.
Posted on 4/18/2009 1:11:00 PM by Anonymous
HI, I just find out I’m HPV+. I've been married for 7 years and I feel devastated. Did my husband cheat on me??? I feel so confused and he denies having an affair or anything. He seems honest, but I don’t know if to believe him or not… :( Is there anyone out there in the same situation? What should I do? I’m 25 and a mother of 3…
Posted on 4/6/2009 3:55:00 PM by Anonymous
Well,I had prostate cancer surgery 5 years ago and since then never had a sexual relation because of erectile dysfunction. I have become impotent. Need your help to cure this. Paul. ( Email:paulkituba@hotmail.com)
Posted on 2/13/2009 10:02:00 PM by Anonymous
Whatever, when you get an STD, it's ...................... But I never lose hope when you get an STD. I have met my someone special on stdslove.com, also some good frends never lose hope never lose hope never lose hope never lose hope
Posted on 1/7/2009 9:11:00 PM by Anonymous
Always listen to your 1st mine, if something inside you keep telling you to go get yourself checked, do so...."You will never know the truth from another, so its best for you to put forth action, there is only 1 you...An for the female, who met the gentlemen on the Internet and slept with him and he wa 13 years older than you..I am amazed that your not dying-you have to be physically and socialbly around them enough. THey have alot of Aids and HPVs that is out there with no way of knowing until its turn into stages that is too late becareful and dont forget there is only 1 you..No matter who you are
Posted on 11/6/2008 12:16:00 PM by Anonymous
I have only been sexually active for about a year and a half. Ive always been afraid of getting an STD. My mom has herpes and so does my best friend and my best friends mom has genital warts. I just turned 18 not even a month ago. I was involved with a guy that I met on the computer (biggest mistake of my life). Hes older than me by 13 years. I had unprotected sex with him about a week ago and today I have to go get tested for Genital warts. I dated him for 4 months and he never said anything about having an STD and I didn't think to ask him which was another really big mistake. When I found out that I might have an STD I started crying and asked why me. The sad thing though is that this could happen to ANYONE. But when your young and dumb like me you think that it cant happen to you but it can and now I know that.
Posted on 11/4/2008 11:38:00 AM by sissy2008
As a nurse at an STD/HIV clinic I'm not too amazed at some of the comments on this site. Best info site is the CDC (Center for Disease Control). They have all the latest info on STDs, treatment guidelines, and frequently asked questions are answered there. Get informed. This is the site all clinics base their treatment regimens on. They are the pros. And as a clinic nurse, let me tell all of you, there is absolutely no guarantee your partner is monogamous. You'd be stunned about how many people have alternative lifestyles, extra partners, or are just plain promiscuous. Lots of husbands are out there having unprotected sex with other males and their wives have no idea. They figure they are "out with the boys".....and they really are!
Posted on 10/27/2008 8:28:00 PM by Anonymous
We're in the same boat. I have to 2 children but have had 3 partners since the age of 18. I'm now 32, but I was never involved in risky sexual behavior, such as sleeping around. My children were both conceived within a commited relationship, so I thought. My youngest son's father, turned out to be a whore and didn't seem to care. I'm now considering going to be tested for all STD's, just to make sure that IF I have contracted something from him being careless with his own body, that I can receive treatment if it's available. I pray that I have a clean slate, but realistically, I have to make sure, rather than hoping for the best, ya know? I say this to not scare you, but to make you aware that it's a good thing that you and your partner were tested and have been cleared of any worries. However, it only takes an instance of your partner being unfaithful to put you at risk. Just be careful out here. STD's are on the rise.
Posted on 10/19/2008 7:08:00 AM by Anonymous
The thing is I trusted the guy too much... I haven't been tested yet but I am going tomorrow. I'm freaked out. I'm only 21 and this is the first time that I'm going to get tested as I have not been sexually active long and have not had multiple partners. Something doesn't feel right, I know my body pretty well, and I'm so scared that I might have screwed up my whole entire future. I'm hoping this is just a scare that I can just learn from but well I don't really know... and reading all the symptoms and long term affects is making me even more paranoid. I'm scared, please pray for me.
Posted on 10/15/2008 12:21:00 AM by Anonymous
TELL THE TRUTH!!!!!!!!! IF YOU CANT CALL ,ASK A NURSE TO.We dident ask for stds.It was a acident no body wants stds.The only way to stop the further spread is the truth ,get tested and get treated. I myself have herpies 2 partners in 12 years I have been tested every year for 15yrs #2 tested positive and is still spreading it.Even though your not broke out your a carrier and you can be a carrier and not ever brake out.1 out of 4 have it and know it. But I thitnk its 1 in a million that are honest enough to tell you.And that speeks huge amounts about them as a person. Dont forget what it felt like when you found out . I WOULD NEVER WISH THAT ON ANYONE!!!!! PLEASE TELL THE TRUTH!!!!
Posted on 10/14/2008 8:40:00 PM by Anonymous
Maybe you don't have Herpes? I was once told I had Herpes by a Doctor. I told him he was wrong and he had an attitude. Turned out he was wrong and I was right. He was an idiot! I had 7 episodes of break outs that weren't really break outs in one year and half time. It has been eight years since and not one episode if anyone is wondering and the doctor never did one test to check for Herpes. I was having an allergic reaction to Bactrim medication. I'm allergic to Sulfa. I use to take this medication all of the time when I was sick and never had a allergic reaction so I never associated the two. I found out later you can develp an allergic reaction. The sulfa would eat my gential skin, it was brutal. After the 3 or 4 episode I started using tea tree oil and it stopped the sulfa from eating my skin. Truely amazing, TRUELY AMAZING! Also, I don't take antibiotics anymore. So I don't get sick anymore.
Posted on 9/27/2008 7:41:00 PM by Anonymous
i really do believe there is a way to supress and cure this hiv thing ...base on all evidense i feel it ...it might be a problem in some way to release it but there are way to supress this shit for good ...
Posted on 9/14/2008 9:56:00 PM by Anonymous
When you have a break out can someome be infected by touching things like door handles, things in the kitchen, etc.
Posted on 9/12/2008 11:02:00 PM by Anonymous
I went to the hospital because I was in a lot of pain in the genital area. The doctor told me I probably had a yeast infection. I told her to look closer b/c there was a sore there to she missed. She gave me a look I will never forget then looked at the nurse and said we need a hsv test. Then said it looked like I had herpes. She said she was not sure b/c it did not look text book herpes but the look on her face said otherwise. Now I have to wait a week. But I am pretty sure I have it. I wanted to crash into a pole on my way home from the hospital. My thing is I am in the middle of a divorce with two kids and just started seeing this guy 2 months ago. So I have only had 2 partners in the last 5 1/2 yrs. So how do I know who gave it to me? If that is what it is. I have not told my new boyfriend yet but I did tell him the doctor said I could not have sex for 10 days. I just dont want him to freak out if it is not but im pretty sure it is. Im only 22 I cant believe this and if my boyfriend gave it to me do I stay with him? Should I be mad? I cant really b/c it was me who did not enforce the condom b/c I am allergic to latex. I am a mess right now. I was so scared to start dating for this reason but I thought it would be fine if I had sex with just one person.
Posted on 9/11/2008 12:43:00 AM by Anonymous
I WANNA KNOW IF U WERE TESTED BY AN HEALTH DEPT AND U FOR GET TO CALL BACK FOR YOUR RESULTS AND SOMETHING ON YOUR TEST POPS POS SHOULD SOME ONE CALL U TO LET U KNOW U NEED TO COME IN
Posted on 9/10/2008 5:49:00 PM by Anonymous
I was also given this STD at a very young age, by the father of my 37 yr old son. Needless to say we parted company, 34 yrs later I am divorced again, if feel that I cannot start dating again because of HPV, not only embarassed, but also unfair for a future partner, soooo any advice on how to address this. Never gave it to my ex husband, It is controlable, and preventable, just uncurable sad fact!!!
Posted on 9/8/2008 9:53:00 AM by Anonymous
This is probably the stupidest question anyone can ask but I am 25 years old and I just let a friend of mine (who I know has been diagnosed with genital herpes) borrow my most favorite and newest bathing suit. I spent more on this bathing suit that I have any other item I have ever purchased and I just need to know if there is a way to wash it without potentially infecting myself (I've asked two doctors and also looked online and everything contradicts itself)or if I should just let her keep the swim suit and not worry about it anymore?
Posted on 9/6/2008 3:31:00 PM by Anonymous
had been with the same partner for 7 years and went through a rough break. I had unprotected sex with just one person and now 9 months later am back with the father of my children and lover of 7 years. I found that i have chlamydia now just from that ONE mistake and i have passed it along. I'm still awaiting an HIV test and pray it comes back negative. You never think it can happen to you but like the books say: " it can happen to anyone" Be careful for your futures sake.......
Posted on 8/25/2008 8:08:00 PM by Anonymous
I really need advice.i acted completely irresponsible and drank too much and ended up having sex w/ somebody. i didnt know this person 'that well' (a friend of a friend). We had unprotected sex (again, irresponsible behavior!!)and about 2 days later i noticed the outside rim of my vagina was painfully sore and i had these (pea sized) open sores!!! they were on the outer 'rim' or opening of my vagina. i was shocked and i made an appointment tomorrow morning..but regardless, i havent spoken to this person since then & i dont know what to do now. Should i call & tell him? And what do i do now?Did he just completely ruin my life? I dont even know if I have herpes yet (my apointments tomorrow), but it sounds like i do.If I do, how am I going to date again?How do i explain this to someone???someone please help me. and i'm only 25 yrs old, i'll be stuck w/ this til i die. :( can't believe how stupid i was.....
Posted on 8/1/2008 6:02:00 PM by Anonymous
Honest is the key if that person cares they will be willing to work with you
Posted on 8/1/2008 5:18:00 PM by Anonymous
I really like the information this site has provide. Easy to understand & makes you take the time to think and evaluate how precocious life is!
Posted on 7/23/2008 2:34:00 PM by Anonymous
I have been infected with vaginal herpes for twenty years. For the first five to seven years I was unaware because of infrequent outbreaks, which at those times, I believed to be just a temporary sore. My herpes was not transmitted to my partners, or at least, not to my knowledge. Since then, I have been honest with my new partners and they have been understanding and I have not lost a boyfriend due to the fact that I have it. My outbreaks are very rare. My life is fine and normal. Not to worry. I refrain from various sex activities during an outbreak and suggest the same to others.
Posted on 7/18/2008 5:06:00 PM by Anonymous
I just went to the doctor with what i thought was BV, and the first doctor told me it looked like a skin irritation. However, she got a second opinion from another doctor who said it was herpes. I have to wait 10 days until i can know. I told my boyfriend that he has to get tested because he probably gave it to me and he said there was no way he has it because he doesn't have symptoms. But that is possible- to have herpes and not have symptoms. It very important that everyone gets tested - i wish i would have because if that test comes back positive -- 95% chance it will, my life will never be the same. GET TESTED. Please.
Posted on 7/12/2008 2:35:00 PM by Anonymous
From everything I've read on herpes 2, it doesn't live in the air or for very long without being on skin. I would find it hard to believe that someone got it off a toilet seat. I also understand that most herpes tests are not very effective unless you are having an outbreak and they can swab the sores. Blood tests taken before you start a relationship are certainly wonderful and encouraged, but also may not tell you if you have herpes2 or not. Don't loose heart, it's manageable. Read as much as you can. Best wishes.
Posted on 6/17/2008 10:16:00 PM by Anonymous
How is it possible to contract herpes from a toilet seat? Don't say it's not possible because it is. I've got herpes type 2 on the back of my leg and no where else. And i've only been with one person for 2 years and we got tested for everything before we had sex and everything came back clear. It's not fair and it's not right. I just don't understand how this could have happened!!??
Posted on 6/7/2008 10:11:00 AM by Anonymous
I know someone who had contracted herpes type 2 on the back of her leg. Doctor said it was from a toilet seat. Now how is this possible and what luck does she have?
Posted on 6/7/2008 10:03:00 AM by Anonymous
herpes are a nasty thing to have. i feel for the people who have it. its not fun and you have to live with it for the rest of your life. a know someone who has herpes. she got it at a very young age. losing her virginity is how she got it. what a bad decsion. now she has to live with it. dont make the same mistake. get check out. and be safe. if your not sure about your partner. get them check or rap it up.
Posted on 6/4/2008 4:56:00 PM by Anonymous
what's a good way to discuss with a new partner that you really care about that you have herpes???
Posted on 6/4/2008 2:16:00 AM by Anonymous
Just make a deal with yourself, long term relationship or not. Get tested every few months. And always practise safe sex!!!
Posted on 6/1/2008 11:17:00 PM by Anonymous
In response to the one who got HPV from her husband. You could of had HPV before and not have known it and passed it to him and then your symptoms showed. Unless he willingly admits to cheating, there is just no way of actually knowing. Talking calmly might help releave some tension.
Posted on 6/1/2008 11:15:00 PM by Anonymous
In response to the one who got HPV from her husband. There is no test for HPV unless showing symptoms and you can have it for a long time and never show symptoms. He may have honestly believed he was clean.
Posted on 5/14/2008 4:11:00 PM by Anonymous
std's are no joke. let me tell you that these peoplen do not care about you they will look at you in your eyes knowing that they have a disese and give it to you. PLEASE PROTECT YOURSELF!!!! it's gettin deadly out here in these streets.
Posted on 4/21/2008 1:19:00 PM by Anonymous
i just got hpv from my husband. i trusted him so much when he siad he is clean i said ok but you should never trust anyone in u r life abour sex. its horrible feeling when u find out what u have. always ...plz .plz get tested before having relationship.
Posted on 4/10/2008 4:18:00 PM by Anonymous
I've just recently been diagnosed with genital warts and now fear that it's spread to my lips. I have a four year old son whom could now have the chance in getting it. I'm telling everyone, if you fear you could have something or even if you distrust a partner...GET TESTED. Heck get tested after every partner or even longlasting relationships...everyone lies due to shame and hurting the other person.
Posted on 4/8/2008 8:54:00 AM by Anonymous
i think that any one who thinks that they have any kind of STDs should get tested. no matter how bad you may think that you look when you tell the Dr. that you want to be tested, you just should get it done any ways! if you do think that you do have it, its going to be on your mind until you do go get tested. if you go and get tested and it comes back positive you should be nice enough to go and tell you partners and then so on!
Posted on 3/25/2008 2:44:00 PM by Anonymous
to avoid any std is to completely avoid sexual intercourse but to be realistic no body is really going to avoid having sex so using proper protection such as latex condoms! you can never go wrong this will not guarantee that you will not get and STD but it will certainly reduce the risk by like 80 percent :)
Posted on 3/4/2008 12:51:00 AM by Anonymous
i think that if people know that there are all these STD's out their and they don't want to get them that they should just stop having sex period.
Posted on 2/29/2008 12:51:00 PM by Anonymous