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Menopause

What you need to know

By Kathleen Gadomski

What is menopause?

Menopause is a normal event in a woman’s life. It signifies the end of fertility – the reproductive cycle has reached its end and the ovaries no longer function as they did when the woman was in her childbearing years. On average, menopause occurs between the ages of 45 and 55. It is defined as the cessation of menstruation and is confirmed when a women does not have a period for 12 consecutive months. Some women start to experience symptoms anywhere from one to six years before actually entering menopause.

There are many stages and types associated with menopause:

  • Early menopause. Menopause that is natural or induced but occurs before average age of 45 to 55.
  • Premature menopause. This is natural or induced menopause occurring at or prior to a woman reaching 40 years of age.
  • Induced menopause. This is medical or surgical intervention which removes or compromises the functioning of the ovaries well before the average age of natural menopause.
  • Peri menopause. The years leading up to menopause where a women starts to experience the symptoms of menopause. It literally means “around menopause.”
  • Post menopause. All the years after the final menstrual period.

Peri menopause is the transition into menopause. This transition phase is characterized by declining ovarian function. Hormones will start to fluctuate and gradually decline, which could result in mood swings and hot flashes, to name a few. A woman may still be able to conceive during perimenopause but her fertility is very low. Perimenopause ends one year after the final menstrual period.

What are the signs and symptoms of menopause?

Each woman experiences menopause differently. Some women have little or no symptoms, while others have extreme symptoms. The severity of symptoms will vary from woman to woman, with some symptoms lasting a short time while others may linger. Symptoms include:

  • Irregular periods (starting in perimenopause)
  • Dry skin
  • Mood changes (mood swings, depression, anxiety and irritability)
  • Vagiperhapnal dryness
  • Headaches
  • Sleep problems
  • Fatigue and tiredness
  • Hot flashes
  • Night sweats
  • Joint aches and pain
  • Lack of sexual desire
  • Problems with concentration and memory
  • Weight gain
  • Hair loss and thinning hair
  • Weakening of the bones

Hot flashes are the most common symptom, and can occur at any time of the day. The exact cause is still unknown, but they are believed to be the result of changes in the area of the brain that regulates body temperature. When this area is triggered to sense that a woman is cold, it sets off a mechanism to heat the body. This leads to the red flushed feeling, especially in a woman’s face. She begins to perspire in order to cool down, which in turn leads to a chilled feeling. If she sweats heavily during the night (called the “night sweats”), it could lead to sleep disturbances, which in turn produce fatigue and possible irritability. It’s a chain of events that link themselves together in a cycle. Though approximately two-thirds of women experience hot flashes, the good news is the hot flashes will eventually stop on their own.

How can I treat the symptoms?

Treatment of menopause is dependent on the type and severity of symptoms and will differ from woman to woman. The best action is to seek professional help from your physician or gynecologist.

The most common prescription treatment is HRT or hormone replacement therapy. HRT is the use of a synthetic estrogen taken daily in pill form. Hormone replacement is the most effective option for relieving severe hot flashes and other symptoms caused by the fluctuations in estrogen and other hormones. It does have its side effects and contraindications, so it is not appropriate for all women.

Other prescription treatments are not geared toward menopause itself, but the symptoms. For example, medications such as Neurontin will be prescribed for migraines or headaches. Depression and anxiety can be treated with Paxil and Prozac, and high blood pressure can be treated with Aldomet, Catapres (clonidine). One point to remember, these symptoms need a thorough medical exam by your physician before any prescriptions are given.

Ways to Cope with Menopause

Lifestyle Changes

  • Identify and avoid what triggers the symptom. For example, hot flashes and headaches can be triggered by caffeine, smoking, spicy foods, hot drinks or alcoholic beverages.
  • To reduce stress and promote sleep, engage in regular exercise. Some women find that yoga, Pilates, meditation, acupressure and massage helps.
  • Find ways to stay cool during the day and especially at night. Dress in light clothing. Sleep in bed covered with only a sheet. Keep a fan or air conditioning on. Keep a glass of cold water at the bedside to sip when awakening. Learn techniques to help relax and promote sleep, such as relaxation and breathing exercises.
  • Join a support group of other women experiencing menopause. You might get new insight on how to deal with symptoms.

Dietary Changes

  • Some women find that if they increase their consumption of soy products such as soy milk, tofu and soybeans, they can reduce some symptoms by 15 percent.
  • Limit or reduce intake of salt, simple sugars and carbohydrates.
  • Consume a low-fat, high-fiber diet rich in fruits, vegetables and whole grains.
  • Increase intake of milk and dairy products. Avoid alcohol and caffeine.
  • Another treatment for menopause is classified as non-prescription therapy. This includes vitamins, herbs and minerals such as black cohosh (a herbal supplement useful to treat hot flashes, mood swings and other symptoms), calcium and vitamin D supplements, B-complex vitamins and multivitamins.

All women experience menopause, but each in her own unique way. Some women may be influenced by their expectations as well. If you become knowledgeable about menopause, work together with your physician and set a plan with goals for dealing with it, you can make your experience a positive one.

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I am 47.. i just started my menopuse.. i think?.. i have nerver missed a period nor got on every 2 weeks.. that whats happing to me now!! real heavy & it really sucks,, i worry about getting perganat ,, because not really sure when and if i am ovulating.. sexualy it been greater,,, what the best i can do to prevent it..
Posted on 8/27/2009 1:41:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 49 and am going through menopause I guess, tho i still get horrible cramps and alot of bleeding. i get headaches, backpain and all the other uncomfortable symtoms. i am struggling with the suggestion of a hystectomy or another procedue that burns the lining of the uterus. I dont know what to do...any suggesions
Posted on 3/16/2009 7:21:00 PM by Anonymous
What is your take on natural hormone therapy instead of synthetic?
Posted on 2/9/2009 9:55:00 PM by Anonymous
I have also been on Estrace vag cream for dryness. No libido either
Posted on 2/9/2009 9:52:00 PM by Anonymous
after going through some syptoms, all of a sudden extreme sweating, then chills. Having terrible time sleeping.
Posted on 2/9/2009 9:48:00 PM by Anonymous
I have hot flashes as well as cold flashes. I feel they are both equally unpleasant. I have tried estrace estrogen cream, and black cohash with soy that I take with vitamin E twice a day. Sometimes one thing works and other times it is another thing. At least for me trying to find consistant relief is a balancing act that has been hard to achieve. My furnace is turned down in the winter, and my air conditioner is lowered in the summer. I hope to live long enough to actually enjoy old age without these unpleasant physical side effects. Waiting and hoping in the Midwest.
Posted on 1/31/2009 8:28:00 PM by Anonymous
Recently my husband was prescribed medication for a health problem he was having. As a side effect of the medication he had a few hot flashes the first few days he was on it while his body adjusted. He said that in the past he always kind of got upset when I was having a hot flash or other menopause symptoms. Having experienced a bit of what I was going through, he became a lot more caring and sensitive husband because of what he had experienced himself. Am thinking about sending his physician a "thank you note." by another Anonymous woman
Posted on 1/31/2009 8:21:00 PM by Anonymous
im 38. ive had a full hysterectomy and i was told to be on estrogen for 20 yrs and im looking for a vitamin thats not harmful that helps. i can't take hormones.
Posted on 1/22/2009 7:19:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 47 and going thru complete hell right now. This crap is going to drive me straight to the nut house. I am even on leave from my job as for now. Why because of my irrablity. Although I am going in for a Hysto Monday. Dont know how much it will help. But I know one thing I know that I will never ever be me again. I feel so sad about that. I miss thaT FUN person I use to be. I hardly laugh anymore mostly cry. And fight with my family constantly. Also have considered suicide. Jo
Posted on 1/20/2009 11:34:00 AM by Anonymous
I am a 46 year old woman and I am on my menstrual cycle right now and I feel terrible like I want to rip people apart!!!! My husband knows to keep away from me and my son is very careful not to make me mad. I have very heavy discharge and blood clots come down very bad I just want to scream very loud when will this end!!!!!
Posted on 1/17/2009 11:50:00 PM by Anonymous
should I stop eating soy after menopause?
Posted on 1/15/2009 11:24:00 AM by Anonymous
could you please advise me how long menopause symptoms should last after your ovaries are removed. thank you mary
Posted on 1/10/2009 7:09:00 PM by Anonymous
i have sereve night sweats and become dizzy. What can i di about this?
Posted on 1/8/2009 7:12:00 PM by Anonymous
I had a hysterectomy when i was 28, and I am 42 now and have lost all interest in sex. It is cauesing alot of problems between my husband and I. he is very curle about it and I am just woundering if the desire comes back? Or should I file for a divorce?
Posted on 1/7/2009 11:58:00 AM by Anonymous
I am 51 and just turned that age and have never missed a period in my life ,except when I was pregnant. I am scared I may be pregnant and my dr. asked me last January did I want to go on birht control pills .I laughed at her. Now I am wondering is the laugh on me. I hAVE MISSED MY PERIOD FOR TWO MONTHS THUS FAR AND HAVE NOT HAD NEITHER HOT FLASH NOR NIGHT SEAT. WHAT IS GOING ON?
Posted on 1/6/2009 8:03:00 PM by Anonymous
This is a helpful website. My mother died at 72 with Alzheimer's Disease, after a slow, 10-year decline from the disease. I wondered if 49 was considered early for menopause, and had heard rumors that early menopause can be a risk-related factor for Alzheimer's. Becky
Posted on 11/25/2008 6:45:00 PM by Anonymous
I finally saw someone say they also experience vertigo. I am not crazy. Estrogen patch and birth control pills stopped it, but unfortunately I had a stroke due to the estrogen causing a clot. I am looking into natural estrogen. Some foods mimic estrogen in the body, like celery,fennel bulb etc. Since coming off the pill, I have vertigo every month,hours of dizziness and vomiting.
Posted on 11/12/2008 9:40:00 AM by Anonymous
I am 50 and haven't had a period for 8 months. I am having the Hot flashes along with all the other symptoms, except the vagiperhapnal dryness and loss of sexual desire. In fact just the opposite. Is this normal and will this go away along with the Hot flashes where I can be normal again.
Posted on 10/28/2008 9:45:00 AM by Anonymous
Maca Root, natural hormone. Google it and readabout its benefits. Saved me and my marriage from my "nasty" mood swings and i became much more interested in my husband and sex again!
Posted on 10/5/2008 7:51:00 PM by Anonymous
did anyone go through early menopause after having tubal ligation
Posted on 9/30/2008 7:26:00 PM by Anonymous
To the comments before this one for the girl begin driven crazy at work: Don't be so hard on this woman if she's nice to you and the others. She truly can't help it and it sounds as if she's aware of her behavior and trying to do what she can to relieve her symptoms. The only thing I can tell you is try to understand her as best as you can because your turn is coming and it will be here before you know it! Hah hah!
Posted on 9/26/2008 4:25:00 PM by Anonymous
i started this new job and one my co-workers is going through menapause, she is the most annoying and control freak lady.she has a complex of age and tries to be like us two that are in our early twenties and thirties.i cant stand her anymore i already spoke to my boss but shes her cousin so theirs not much she can do. oh i did notice she only eats friuts and goes to yoga classes but thats not enough for her. shes got some deeper issues of being old and in her menapause.
Posted on 9/22/2008 11:52:00 PM by Anonymous
Thank you , now my boyfrendwill know why I cry and laugh at the same time
Posted on 9/20/2008 11:57:00 PM by Anonymous
I am only 38 years old and have been having night sweats now for about the last 3 years. My periods are more intense but the flow can be less. The worse I think is that sometimes I feel like am losing my mind. Any advise???
Posted on 9/14/2008 11:53:00 PM by Anonymous
I'm 58 and had a partial hysterectomy(1 ovary left) at 42 due to fibroids. Took HRT for 11 years and had to stop. (breast problems) Then came the hot flashes. I live with them during the day, but at night it is intollerable. I go to bed with nothing on, and a fan going above, even in the winter. I haven't slept 2 hrs straight in 6 years. The flashes come every hr on the hr. I've spent hundreds on stuff for hot flashes. I've gone to seminars, have tried all the herbal treatments, black cohosh, soy, estrovin creams etc. antidepressant drugs, and I'm not depressed, and now clonidine which I was told may help. My bloodpressure is excellent, so I'm told at all my exams, so I'm leary about trying the clonidine patch. I've tried sominex, nytol, and ambian to sleep. Occasional coffee, Occasional alcohol (once a week if that) Otherwise I'm a healthy, active 58 with no other medical problems. I would give anything to sleep more than an hr without waking up. I pray one day the flashes will just stop. I'll probably live with no medical problems till I'm in my 80's like my mom or die from lack of sleep.
Posted on 9/12/2008 12:03:00 PM by Anonymous
I just turned 49 and have been in perimenopause for about 3 years. The last 3 months have been TERRIBLE. My periods are very irregular and before they were every 28 days exactly. You would think I was in the Red Sea and Niagra falls combined when my period gets here for the flooding. All I want is to be near a bathroom. I have the hotflashes sometimes but not much. I have gained some weight around the middle and do get anxiety sometimes. About a year ago I went through some bouts of panic attacks and went on meds for a few months but now I am okay. It is like a rollercoaster ride being in perimenopause.... I feel for all you ladies who are experiencing the same thing I am. It is rough sometimes...
Posted on 9/11/2008 11:46:00 AM by Anonymous
I am 48 years old and went through pre-menopause since 42. Hot flashes were every so often and I would skip a period for a month or two. Now the issue is the weight gain around the middle as well as the hot flashes come about every 1/2 hour. Also, when can expect to no longer have a period?
Posted on 9/8/2008 1:13:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 49 and going through menopause for the past 2 yrs. My problem is no deodorent is working, Mitchum, dove, secret, secret clinical, ban, you name it -I have it, and they all do not work. Please is there anything else I can use? Thank You
Posted on 8/26/2008 8:07:00 PM by Anonymous
I am only 44 yrs old and have been going thru pre-menapause for about 10 years, my mom started menapause at the age of 29, but she went thru full blown menapause for about 8-10 yrs. I don't like to take any medications, I am an Herbal individual who loves the natural products. Can anyone suggest what to take (not sleeping well (horrible night sweats), mood swings (you never can tell what mood I will be in from one minute to the next). Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I did however, start a 500 calorie diet 3 days ago and feel GREAT!!!! I cut out all my salt (which I hardly every used). thank you.. debra
Posted on 8/14/2008 9:40:00 AM by Anonymous
I hadnt had a mennstral period in almost 5 months, and bammmm.the flooding began. couldnt even keep anything on long enough to work for a day. Thanks for the information, it was a bit worrisome. The hot flashes I could tolerate.but the mood swings were extreame at times.
Posted on 8/9/2008 9:51:00 AM by Anonymous
I don't know which is worse, hot flashes and insomnia or cramps and flowing for a week. Think I'll take hot flashes and insomnia. To be free from femine products is great. Thanks for all ithe information you provide.
Posted on 8/5/2008 5:44:00 PM by Anonymous
to the 45 year old who had a hysterectomy 9 years ago, i my self had a complete hysterectomy only 2 years ago and i can totaly relate to all that you say. my doctor put me on this cream thats called "PREMARIN". its the best. I dont only feel better, i also got my life back.
Posted on 7/24/2008 11:29:00 AM by Anonymous
I am currently on the ortho evera patch, but my question is I'm starting to have itching and burning, it there a cream or anything I can use, to help this? I can not stop taking birth control because I'm still active.
Posted on 7/23/2008 1:00:00 PM by Anonymous
I have been going through Menopause for,4 years. Hot flashes are horrible. I have ankle swelling, weight gain, heart palpatations, that are getting worse.... And now all of a sudden, I have an overactive Thyroid.. Is an overactive Thyroid part of Menopause ? I seriously, need to know because some doctors don't really know all the answers...... Fed Up!!
Posted on 7/14/2008 11:14:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 45 and had a total hysterectomy done about 9 years ago and my dr. put me on premarin and I took that for about 4 years and I had never felt better. Then I stopped it due to insurance reasons(divorce) and I havent taken anything in the past 3 years. In the past 8-12 months I have noticed a big difference in myself. I am not nearly as happy or fun like I used to be and now lately I have been driving my husband crazy with all these stupid thoughts I have been having. Is anybody else have crazy thoughts like this?(eg,I dont believe anything my husband says and I think he is cheating on me,which I know is not true cause the poor guy goes to work and home.Any spare time he has is ALWAYS with me. But I just keep thinking stupid thoughts.I started back on premarin today and we will see if that helps.I hope it does!!
Posted on 7/14/2008 8:03:00 PM by Anonymous
I don't know if I am experiencing menopause because I had a hysterectomy done 24 years ago. The doctor left my ovaries, but not having a menstral cycle has me confused. I am 50 years old now and have many of the symptoms but my doctor has put it up to other things such as medications.
Posted on 7/13/2008 11:31:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 46 years old and had a partial hysterectomy at 37. I feel like I'm am losing my mind with these uncontrolable urges to be as mean as possible to my husband. I don't believe anything he says and am basically making him miserable. I started taking hormones a week ago but I don't know if I can make it like this much longer. It is miserable! Please help!
Posted on 7/9/2008 10:27:00 PM by Anonymous
I can only hope I am skating thru menopause. I am 52 and have yet to know what is going on with me. My periods are getting a little shorter by a day sometimes 2. (I usually go for 7 days). I have them EVERY month and no flashes, night sweats, my fibro acts up each month around that time & I may "claim the memory loss" & has had insomia since I gave birth to my youngest child at 40. Could that hold me up from actually starting yet? Don't remember mom going thru anything when she should have been going thru menopause. I asked my doctor if I was ever going to start & of course he said I have to wait & see. Bummer! I am ready to move on & look forward to this coming & being over!
Posted on 6/28/2008 8:07:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 47 and I'm experiencing peri-menopause symptoms, such as extremely heavy periods that last longer than they used to. My Mother keeps reminding me that things are going to get worst. I just hope I can be as strong as she was during her Menopause. She never took hormones. She exercised regularly, ate healthy, and took herbal supplements (Black Cohosh and Dong Quai), Vit B Complex, and other vitamins. When she developed anxiety, she refused to take medication. She coped with it by reading profusely whenever the anxiety feelings hit her; this helped take her mind off of the awful negative feelings, which made her feel like she could not breathe. I'll be happy if I can be half as strong as my Mother!
Posted on 6/20/2008 3:52:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 44 yrs old and started to show signs of Menopause when I was 38-39 yrs old. Just a few yrs ago when I was 41, my Dr. checked me for it and I was highly into it. I didnt have a period for 4 months and now in 2008, I havent had one now for going on 5 months. I do periods when I cry, but usually when I am off by myself, cause my husband always wants to know why I am crying and thinks that its because I miss my parents. But I know its Menopause. What can I expect next? I know that when my mom had me, she was 38 yrs old and I dont remember her having a period when I was young before I started School. I have no one else to turn too. Please let me know what I can expect. Thanks, M. Sarver martysarver@yahoo.com
Posted on 6/17/2008 9:17:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 45 and have been having all the wonderful symptoms for 3 years. I found taking soy isoflavoids has really helped me to reduce them significantly. You can pick it up at any health food store. I am using a brand by Source Naturals. It really helps with the night sweats. If you are experiencing weight gain take the soy along with Reservatrol (red grape complex). I have lost a bit of that unsigthly belly bulge. It may not work for all but it is so worth the try. Your family and co-workers may thank you.
Posted on 6/16/2008 10:26:00 PM by Anonymous
In the past month off and on, I have had swelling of my upper lip. It is worse in the morning and seems to somewhat subside by days end. I had an allegic reaction to a medication years ago, and where it is similar, I am not on any new medications. Wondering if this can be another symtom of menepause?
Posted on 6/16/2008 7:50:00 AM by Anonymous
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Posted on 6/14/2008 11:53:00 PM by Anonymous
Does early menopause mean earlier death? I wonder if hormone therapy is a good idea for me.
Posted on 6/5/2008 10:13:00 PM by Anonymous
I am 57 and I guess one might consider me post menopausal as I stopped having periods for more than 5 years now. I have suffered all of the "usual" symptoms, but have recently developed a rash that started on my right foot and has slowly crept up my my entire leg. It is unsightly and terribly itchy. My doctor just informed me that it is another "symptom" of menopause. I've never heard of this type of occurance before. Anyone else out there experiencing the same malady? I was just given a cream 2 days ago, so I can't really say if it is effective or not, but I sure hope so, I hesitate to wear anything that will show my legs because my leg looks UGLY.
Posted on 6/4/2008 5:12:00 PM by Anonymous
I'm 46 and not yet even in perimenipause according to my gynocologist, but have started to experience severe migraines in the last year on a monthly basis for about 24-48 hours which include: headache, nausea, dizziness/vertigo/shakiness, chills and sweats, sensitivity to light/sound. I'm miserable and incapacitated for 1-2 days every month and at a loss for what to do. My regular dr is now wanting to send me to a neurologist. He gave me samples of migraine medicine but it didn't seem to help.
Posted on 6/4/2008 8:08:00 AM by Anonymous
I dont know why they call them night sweats when they are off and on twenty four seven . I read this could last ten years.HELP !
Posted on 6/2/2008 4:09:00 PM by Anonymous
I am personally hating the night sweats, insomnia, and (what was that other aggravating thing??) memory hiccups. Having this at the same time my children are teenagers have made my house a delight for all of us off and on. HAHAHAHA!!! And to think I could have this for another how many years.... like the monthly period wasn't fun enough! :)
Posted on 5/25/2008 8:46:00 AM by Anonymous